{"id":1506,"date":"2017-10-28T16:35:17","date_gmt":"2017-10-28T21:35:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vnsalvation.org\/?p=1506"},"modified":"2019-12-10T14:08:41","modified_gmt":"2019-12-10T14:08:41","slug":"the-sin-of-ingratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/the-sin-of-ingratitude\/","title":{"rendered":"The Sin of Ingratitude"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 id=\"pageTitle\" style=\"text-align: center;\">The Sin of Ingratitude<\/h1>\n<h3 id=\"pagePromo\"><span id=\"Loc-Ren1\" class=\"jRenderLocation\"><span class=\"small-caps\">I<\/span>ngratitude\u2014why is it so prevalent today? The gratitude and thankfulness exhibited in previous generations has all but disappeared! Why? And what can you do to make sure <span class=\"small-caps\">you<\/span> are grateful?<\/span><\/h3>\n<div id=\"mainText\">\n<p>Ingratitude is an integral part of society. If you ask most people if they are ungrateful, they will probably reply, \u201cOf course not!\u201d However, this attitude is so ingrained in their lives, they cannot openly admit\u2014or even realize\u2014that they are ungrateful.<\/p>\n<p>But how can you tell if <i>you<\/i> are ungrateful? Are there things that identify ingratitude? And if so, what can you do about it?<\/p>\n<p><i>Webster\u2019s Dictionary <\/i>defines \u201cIngratitude\u201d as: \u201cForgetfulness of, or poor return for, kindness received.\u201d It can also be defined as not appreciating or valuing what you have, or have been given. <i>Unexpressed<\/i> gratitude is also ingratitude!<\/p>\n<p>In today\u2019s fast-paced world, most people seem to not have time for thankfulness. Work, traffic, family, soccer practice, doctor appointments, and countless other things are their main priorities. They seem to have no time to thank others.<\/p>\n<p>But consider the following. Have you ever given someone a gift and not received thanks for it? Have you ever been in a grocery store or restaurant and were not thanked for your business? Have you ever felt unappreciated by family or friends or at your workplace? If so, how did it make you feel? Probably not very good.<\/p>\n<div id=\"inlineAd_29\" class=\"inlineAd rcgAd\">\n<div class=\"inlineAdImage\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rcg.org\/books\/tww.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"litCover\" src=\"http:\/\/images.rcg.org\/images\/covers\/tww_150.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"inlineAdPromo\"><span id=\"Loc-Ren1\" class=\"jRenderLocation\">Where is the world going? Why is it filled with problems, troubles, evils and ills, causing unhappiness, confusion and misery of every kind? What lies ahead? Is there hope for a different\u2014and truly\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"inlineAdMOB\">\n<div id=\"mob_646_inline29\" class=\"multiOptionButton mob_646 \"><span class=\"mobHead default rcgLink readNow\"><span class=\"favIcon\">\u00a0<\/span><a class=\"default rcgLink readNow\" href=\"http:\/\/rcg.org\/books\/tww.html\">Read Now<\/a> <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Have you ever thought about <i>where<\/i> this mindset of ingratitude comes from? This is vital to understand before one can <i>overcome<\/i> this problem.<\/p>\n<h4>Past to Present: One Nation\u2014Ungrateful<\/h4>\n<p>If you live in America or any other nation descended from ancient Israel, you live in one of the most abundantly blessed lands in the world. This country enjoys plentiful food, shelter, electricity, running water, wealth, air conditioning, heating, transportation, sanitation, and many other blessings. If you live in one of these countries, take a moment to look around and fully take in all of the many blessings.<\/p>\n<p>However, these lands are filled with chronic grumblers and complainers. Although there are <i>countless blessings<\/i>, there seem to always be countless things to <i>gripe<\/i> about\u2014be it traffic, the economy, food prices, problems at work, difficulties with family, desire for additional material possessions, ill health, etc. Never before in the history of man has the world shown this horrible characteristic as it does today!<\/p>\n<p>The Bible records the experiences of another nation\u2014the ancient nation of Israel\u2014who also constantly complained and murmured. No matter what God did for them, it was <i>never<\/i> enough.<\/p>\n<p>After 430 years of slavery to the Egyptians, the Israelites, through God\u2019s miraculous intervention, were released from bondage. As they left Egypt, God allowed them to collect riches, cattle, food, gold, jewels and supplies. God performed many miracles as they traveled through the wilderness. He selected them as His people, promising to take them to a land \u201cfilled with milk and honey.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"inlineAd_30\" class=\"inlineAd wtcAd\">\n<div class=\"inlineAdImage\"><a href=\"http:\/\/worldtocome.org\/player.html#%21Item=559896\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"litCover\" src=\"http:\/\/worldtocome.org\/images\/video\/wtc_098_sidebar.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"inlineAdPromo\"><span id=\"Loc-Ren1\" class=\"jRenderLocation\">When will the \u201cabomination of desolation\u201d appear? How will we know when it has arrived? Here are shocking facts!<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"inlineAdMOB\">\n<div id=\"mob_559896_inline30\" class=\"multiOptionButton mob_559896 \"><span class=\"mobHead default wtcLink watchNow\"><span class=\"favIcon\">\u00a0<\/span><a class=\"default wtcLink watchNow\" href=\"http:\/\/worldtocome.org\/player.html#%21Item=559896\">Watch Now<\/a> <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Notice God\u2019s plain words to the Israelites: \u201cAnd I am come down to deliver them out of the hand of the Egyptians, and to bring them up out of that land unto a <i>good land<\/i> and <i>a large<\/i>, unto a land flowing with milk and honey\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Ex. 3:8<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>But this was not <i>enough<\/i> for them!<\/p>\n<p>Upon approaching the Promised Land, the Israelites were instructed by God to send spies to survey the land. It was located between other nations that were enemies of Israel.<\/p>\n<p>After forty days of spying the land, they returned. And presented to Moses, Aaron and the congregation of Israel the fruit from the land, saying, \u201cWe came unto the land whether you sent us, and surely it flows with milk and honey\u2026Nevertheless the people be strong that dwell in the land, and the cities are walled, and very great\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Num. 13:27<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Caleb, one of the spies, asked Moses for permission to take the land. But the other spies\u2014except for Joshua\u2014lied to the people, claiming that it was infested with strong, powerful giants.<\/p>\n<div id=\"inlineAd_31\" class=\"inlineAd rtAd\">\n<div class=\"inlineAdImage\"><a href=\"http:\/\/realtruth.org\/home.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"litCover\" src=\"http:\/\/images.rcg.org\/images\/covers\/rt1009_150.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"inlineAdPromo\"><span id=\"Loc-Ren1\" class=\"jRenderLocation\">While newspapers, magazines and other news media report what happened, <i>The Real Truth<\/i> analyzes and explains the root cause of <i>why<\/i> events happen\u2014<i>why<\/i> humanity is at a loss to solve today\u2019s problems.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"inlineAdMOB\">\n<div id=\"mob_546382_inline31\" class=\"multiOptionButton mob_546382 \"><span class=\"mobHead default rtLink subscribeNow\"><span class=\"favIcon\">\u00a0<\/span><a class=\"default rtLink readNow\" href=\"http:\/\/realtruth.org\/home.html\">Read Now<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Notice the reaction of the crowd: \u201cAnd all the children of Israel <i>murmured<\/i> against Moses and against Aaron: and the whole congregation said unto them, Would God that we had died in the land of Egypt!\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd wherefore has the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> brought us unto this land, to fall by the sword, that our wives and our children should be a prey? Were it not better for us to return into Egypt? And they said one to another, Let us make a captain, and let us return into Egypt\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Num. 14:2-4<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Israel was so blatantly ungrateful that they wanted to go back to Egypt\u2014where they had undergone many hundreds of years of brutal slavery. They did not appreciate the astounding blessings that God provided or the many powerful miracles He performed for them.<\/p>\n<p>Notice God\u2019s response to their attitude: \u201cAnd the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> said unto Moses, How long will this people <span class=\"small-caps\">provoke<\/span> Me? And how long will it be ere they believe me, for all the signs which I have showed among them? I will smite them with the pestilence, and disinherit them\u2026\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Num. 14:11-12<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>However, Moses reasoned with God, prompting Him to change His mind.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Numbers 14<\/a> continues, \u201cAnd the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> said, I have pardoned according to your word\u2026Because all those men which have seen My glory, and My miracles\u2026have not hearkened to My voice; surely they shall not see the land which I swore unto their fathers, neither shall any of them that <i>provoked<\/i> Me see it\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow long shall I bear with this <span class=\"small-caps\">evil congregation<\/span>, which <i>murmur<\/i> against Me? I have heard the murmurings of the children of Israel, which they murmur against Me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSay unto them, As truly as I live, says the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>, as you have spoken in Mine ears, so will I do to you: your carcasses shall fall in this wilderness\u2026you shall not come into the land, concerning which I swore to make you dwell therein\u2026But your little ones, which you said should be a prey, them will I bring in, and they shall know the land which you have despised\u2026and the people mourned greatly\u2026saying, Lo, we be here, and will go up unto the place which the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> has promised: for <i>we have sinned<\/i>\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Num. 14:20<\/a>, <a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">22-23<\/a>, <a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">27<\/a>, <a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">29<\/a>, <a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">31<\/a>, <a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">39-40<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>God called the Israelites an \u201cevil congregation\u201d for their sinful ingratitude. To God, an ungrateful attitude is sin\u2014evil\u2014which provokes Him to anger! Although God did not strike Israel with pestilence at that time or disinherit them, He did cause them to wander in the wilderness for 40 additional years, until those that demonstrated this attitude died! Their murmurings and unthankful attitude condemned them from ever seeing the Promised Land!<\/p>\n<p>Most are familiar with the phrase, \u201cThose that do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it.\u201d This applies to the modern-day descendants of Israel\u2014the United States, Britain, Australia and other democratic, primarily English-speaking people scattered throughout the world. These nations are foretold to relive history\u2014and experience many soon-coming horrific events for much the same reasons as ancient Israel!<\/p>\n<h4>Reaping Curses<\/h4>\n<p><a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Deuteronomy 28<\/a> has been called the \u201cBlessings and Curses\u201d chapter. It records a sobering warning to those who will heed it. This prophecy, given almost 3,500 years ago, recounts what is foretold to happen to proud, arrogant and <i>ungrateful <\/i>nations!<\/p>\n<p>The first 14 verses describe the many wonderful blessings that are to be poured upon the nations that obey and worship God. The remaining part of the chapter lists the countless curses that are reaped for <i>disobeying<\/i> God:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBecause you serve not the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> your God with <i>joyfulness<\/i>, and with <span class=\"small-caps\">gladness of heart<\/span>, for the <i>abundance<\/i> of all things; therefore shall you serve your enemies which the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> shall send against you, in hunger, and in thirst, and in nakedness, and in want of all things: and he shall put a yoke of iron upon your neck, until he have destroyed you.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> shall bring a nation against you from far, a nation of fierce countenance, which shall not regard the person of the old, nor show favor to the young: and he shall eat the fruit of your cattle, and the fruit of your land, until you be destroyed\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd he shall besiege you in all your gates, until your high and fenced walls come down, wherein you trusted, throughout all your land: and he shall besiege you in all your gates throughout all your land, which the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> your God has given you\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Deut. 28:47-52<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Ingratitude is just one of many sins that the people of this country have committed\u2014and will be led into captivity for! This is the warning from the pages of your Bible! Under captivity, all the grumbling, murmuring and complaining that consume people\u2019s lives will be of no importance.<\/p>\n<p>Ingratitude is a <span class=\"small-caps\">deadly sin<\/span>! The consequence for this sin is grave\u2014and <i>not<\/i> to be taken lightly!<\/p>\n<h4>Ingratitude in Christ\u2019s Day<\/h4>\n<p>Most are familiar with the many Bible accounts of Christ\u2019s miracles. He walked on water, turned water into wine, fed thousands of people from a small amount of food, cast out demons and healed many people. But, although He healed many, how many do you think actually came back to thank Him? You will be surprised.<\/p>\n<p>Luke\u2019s gospel records one such miraculous healing. In this account, Christ healed ten lepers. <a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Verse 12<\/a> records, \u201cAnd as He entered into a certain village, there met Him ten men that were lepers, which stood afar off: and they lifted up their voices, and said, Jesus, Master, have mercy on us.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd when He saw them, He said unto them, Go show yourselves unto the priests. And it came to pass, that, as they went, they were cleansed. And one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, and with a loud voice <i>glorified God<\/i>, and fell down on his face at His feet, <i>giving Him thanks<\/i>: and he was a Samaritan.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd Jesus answering said, Were there not ten cleansed? But where are the nine? There are not found that returned to give <i>glory<\/i> to God, save this stranger. And He said unto him, Arise, go your way: your faith has made you whole\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Luke 17:12-19<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Of the ten lepers, only <i>one<\/i> returned to thank Christ. Think of that statement. Only <i>one<\/i> of the ten thanked God for healing them of an awful disease!<\/p>\n<p>Notice Christ\u2019s rhetorical question. Understanding the characteristics of human nature, He perfectly understood why the others had not returned to thank Him.<\/p>\n<p>But <i>why<\/i> is mankind so intrinsically ungrateful?<\/p>\n<h4>The Most Common Sin<\/h4>\n<p>From television commercials, programs, movies, shopping malls and homes, a widespread attitude of <span class=\"small-caps\">selfishness<\/span> is sweeping the nations of this world. Adults, children and teens are becoming more ungrateful each day.<\/p>\n<p>A main accelerator of this ingratitude is <i>commercialism<\/i>. Society has been caught up in the \u201cyou-work-hard-so-you-deserve-a-new-car-and-a-vacation-in-Barbados\u201d mentality. This, in turn, has caused many to believe the ideology that, if they do not <i>acquire<\/i> these extravagant luxuries, life is somehow treating them unfairly.<\/p>\n<p>Before calling for a national day of fasting, U.S. President Abraham Lincoln stated, \u201cWe have been the recipients of the choicest blessings of heaven. We have been preserved, these many years, in peace and prosperity. We have grown in numbers, wealth and power as no other nation ever has grown; <span class=\"small-caps\">but we have forgotten god<\/span>! We have forgotten the gracious Hand which preserved us in peace, and multiplied and enriched and strengthened us; and we have vainly imagined, in the deceitfulness of our hearts, that all these blessings were produced by some superior wisdom and virtue of our own.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This is a tremendously powerful statement! Since the time President Lincoln gave this speech, the wealth, prosperity and peace experienced by the United States is far greater\u2014along with the attitude of pride, selfishness and ingratitude.<\/p>\n<p>But if this same speech were given today, there would be quite an uproar!<\/p>\n<p>The apostle Paul wrote, \u201cThis know also, that in the <i>last days<\/i> perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, <span class=\"small-caps\">unthankful<\/span>, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">II Tim. 3:1-4<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>These attitudes are becoming increasingly evident in these \u201clast days.\u201d (By these verses, even an atheist can recognize that we are living in these days by simply turning on the television!)<\/p>\n<p>In contrast to Lincoln\u2019s day, or even to fifty years ago, today\u2019s ungrateful attitude is worse by far. If that generation <i>forgot<\/i> God, and the many blessings He provided for America, then this <i>de<\/i>-generation <i>doesn\u2019t even know God exists!<\/i><\/p>\n<p>In this world of being obsessed with what\u2019s \u201cin\u201d\u2014from the newest fashions, to the latest songs and to absurd political correctness\u2014<span class=\"small-caps\">gratitude has been all but declared<\/span> <span class=\"small-caps\">unconstitutional<\/span>!<\/p>\n<p>To find the source of this attitude, one must look in the pages of the Bible to find the most selfish, proud, arrogant, self-centered and ungrateful being that ever existed\u2014Satan the devil.<\/p>\n<p>Before his rebellion against God, Satan (first named Lucifer) was a perfectly created archangel. The prophet Isaiah records, \u201cHow are you fallen from heaven, O Lucifer, son of the morning! How are you cut down to the ground, which did weaken the nations! For you have said in your heart, <i>I<\/i> will ascend into heaven, <i>I<\/i> will exalt <i>my<\/i> throne above the stars of God: <i>I<\/i> will sit also upon the mount of the congregation, in the sides of the north: <i>I<\/i> will ascend above the heights of the clouds; <i>I<\/i> will be like the most High\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Isa. 14:12-14<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Lucifer\u2019s heart was lifted up with arrogance\u2014vanity. He was <i>ungrateful<\/i> to God for giving him life. Neither was he grateful to God for creating him so perfectly. Instead, he rebelled against God, choosing to believe that he was <i>better<\/i> than his Creator\u2014that his way was <i>greater<\/i> than God\u2019s Way.<\/p>\n<p>As the \u201cprince of the power of the air\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Eph. 2:2<\/a>), he broadcasts this same attitude into us.<\/p>\n<h4>How to Be Grateful<\/h4>\n<p>It has been said that ingratitude is the most common sin. Although it is a part of our nature, there are ways that you can avoid being one of the many that commit the sin of ingratitude.<\/p>\n<p>Below are just a few simple ways to show your gratitude toward God and fellowman:<\/p>\n<p>Thank God daily: God commands us to go to Him in prayer with praise and thanksgiving. Do you thank Him daily?<\/p>\n<p>The Bible is filled with examples of God\u2019s servants showing their gratitude towards Him.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">I Chronicles 29<\/a> records King David being deeply moved at the people\u2019s generosity in preparing God\u2019s Temple. David was inspired and expressed his earnest and sincere gratitude in honor of the great God. He exclaimed: \u201cBlessed be You, <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> God of Israel our father, forever and ever. Yours, O <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>, is the greatness, and the power, and the glory, and the victory, and the majesty: for all that is in the heaven and in the earth is Yours; Yours is the kingdom, O <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>, and You are exalted as head above all. Both riches and honor come of You, and You reign over all; and in Your hand is power and might; and in Your hand it is to make great, and to give strength unto all. Now therefore, our God, we thank You, and praise Your glorious name. But who am I, and what is my people, that we should be able to offer so willingly after this sort? For all things come of You, and of Your own have we given You\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">vs. 10-14<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Paul writes, \u201cRejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In every thing give thanks\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">I Thes. 5:16-18<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Psalm 92<\/a> records a special Sabbath psalm used to praise God: \u201cIt is a good thing to give thanks unto the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>, and to sing praises unto Your name, O most High: to show forth Your lovingkindness in the morning, and Your faithfulness every night\u2026For You, <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>, have made me glad through Your work: I will triumph in the works of Your hands. O <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>, how great are Your works! And Your thoughts are very deep\u2026You, <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>, are most High forevermore. For, lo, Your enemies, O <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>, for, lo, Your enemies shall perish; all the workers of iniquity shall be scattered\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">vs. 1-2<\/a>, <a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">4-5<\/a>, <a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">8-9<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>You should never run out of things to thank God for! Go to Him in prayer and continually thank Him for all the blessings He has provided you!<\/p>\n<p>The Bible records God\u2019s faithful servants continuously doing so. We also find that the Bible commands us to always give thanks and praise to God.<\/p>\n<p>Why? Why does God command that we praise Him with thanksgiving? Does He require this because He needs our praises?<\/p>\n<p>NO!<\/p>\n<p>This command is repeated throughout the Bible because WE need it! In order for us, as Christians, to be more like God\u2014the most thankful Being in the universe\u2014WE need to learn to be thankful and give praises every day!<\/p>\n<p>Another vital way to demonstrate gratitude towards the great God is through tithes and offerings. The prophet Malachi records God\u2019s words: \u201cWill a man rob God? Yet you have robbed Me. But you say, Wherein have we robbed You? In tithes and offerings. You are cursed with a curse: for you have robbed Me, even this whole nation. Bring you all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in Mine house, and prove Me now herewith, says the <span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span> of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Mal. 3:8-10<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Although God provides absolutely everything that we have, He promises to provide more\u2014through pouring out blessings from heaven\u2014if we merely do our part by paying tithes and offerings! Through our heartfelt dedication in supporting His end-time Work, He promises us much more than we can possibly desire!<\/p>\n<p>Say \u201cThank you\u201d often: Many people fear thanking others. They often fall into the mentality that, by thanking, they are somehow in debt or owe something to that person. But the truth is far from this!<\/p>\n<p>Throughout history, great men have been known for specifically thanking others. It is not a sign of weakness\u2014it is a sign of <span class=\"small-caps\">meekness<\/span>!<\/p>\n<p>Think of the things that people do for you\u2014from opening a door for you, to giving you a ride to the store, or providing a kind and reassuring word. We live in an age when common courtesy and politeness are all but extinct!<\/p>\n<p>Say \u201cthank you\u201d and \u201cplease\u201d often. You should never run out of people to thank. You would be surprised how happy those little words can make others feel!<\/p>\n<p>Count your blessings, not your worries: Look around you. When was the last time you lost a loved one to starvation or rampant disease? When was the last time you gave up eating to make sure your children had food? When was the last time you had to sell your children because you did not have the money to survive or even provide for them? Chances are you have never experienced these things. Unfortunately, these are grim realities that many around the world face each day. Thank God each day for all the terrible things that you have not had to endure!<\/p>\n<p>It is common to fall into the routine of constant \u201cgrumbling\u201d and complaining about problems and worries. When you find yourself complaining about finances, traffic, problems at work, family issues, car troubles, or whatever other difficulty or trial you may be experiencing, remember that everything God does and allows is for a reason. Although difficult, it is for a greater good\u2014if you overcome them!<\/p>\n<p>Consider the following analogy: Each ingredient used in making a cake is not always sweet or good to the taste. By themselves, their tastes can range from bitter, to salty, to sweet, to chalky. But the end result\u2014the cake\u2014is delicious and sweet!<\/p>\n<p>King Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, recorded, \u201cTo every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Ecc. 3:1<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Although it is difficult to do, when you are experiencing trials, look for the good that God wants you to learn from them. For example, if you are having car problems, and will need an expensive repair, perhaps you are mishandling, or wasting money on other things, and God wants you to re-examine your budget. Many of the difficulties that you encounter can help you realize whether or not you are living properly. You can learn from these experiences!<\/p>\n<p>When people grumble, they are complaining about a situation that God has allowed\u2014and sometimes even caused\u2014them to be in!<\/p>\n<p>Paul admonishes us to \u201cDo all things without murmurings and disputings: that you may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom you shine as lights in the world\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Phil. 2:14-15<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Finally, consider Paul\u2019s example of dealing with trials and afflictions: \u201cNot that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: everywhere and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. Notwithstanding you have well done, that you did communicate with my affliction\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">4:11-14<\/a>). We must learn from experiences\u2014both good and bad!<\/p>\n<h4>Things to Be Grateful For<\/h4>\n<p>The following lists just a few things which we should show gratitude for. Upon reading them, picture how your life would be without them:<\/p>\n<p><b>Loving family and friends: <\/b>After creating man, God declared, \u201cIt is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Gen. 2:18<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>God created humans with the need for family. If you are married, appreciate your husband or wife. If you have children, appreciate all the fond memories that you are building <i>together<\/i>. Problems and arguments will occur from time to time, but at those moments, imagine your life without your loved ones. Realize how different it would be.<\/p>\n<p><b>Employment: <\/b>Without employment, how would you earn a living? How would you eat or feed your family? How would your rent or mortgage be paid? Every day, it seems headlines report some type of corporation \u201claying off\u201d hundreds, even thousands of employees. Be thankful to God for the job He has provided for you. Although you may experience hardships with co-workers or employers, acknowledge that without your job, you would not have a means to support your family or yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b>Food, clothing, shelter: <\/b>Although man has systematically pillaged, destroyed and raped the land that provides the materials needed for food, clothing and shelter, the United States and the other modern-day descendants of Israel have an <i>abundance<\/i> of these great blessings. Other nations, however, do not. Appreciate these things!<\/p>\n<p>God understands that, as physical humans, we need physical substances for survival. Notice: \u201cAnd why take you thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin: and yet I say unto you, that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is cast into the oven, shall He not much more clothe you, o you of little faith? Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? Or, What shall we drink? Or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?\u2026For your heavenly Father knows that you have need of all these things\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Matt. 6:28-32<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>If God cares for and clothes even the flowers, how much more will He provide for those that obey Him? This is what His Word declares.<\/p>\n<p>Are you grateful for this promise? Or do you take it for granted?<\/p>\n<p><b>God\u2019s truth: <\/b>How much do you appreciate God\u2019s Word\u2014the Holy Bible? God has provided a way for us to know and understand His laws through this great Book of Instruction. Notice President Lincoln\u2019s statement concerning it:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI believe the Bible is the best gift that God has ever given to man. All the good from the Savior of the world is communicated through this Book. I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The apostle Peter stated to Christ, \u201cLord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">John 6:68<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Do <i>you<\/i> feel the same way?<\/p>\n<p><b>God\u2019s Sabbath and Holy Days: <\/b>How much do you appreciate, and thank God for, His Sabbath and Holy Days? By observing these, you are separate\u2014different\u2014from the world. They help you understand the great Plan of God, and how He has made it available to us.<\/p>\n<p>With God\u2019s purpose for the Feast days in mind, this will allow you to better see the \u201cbig picture,\u201d and be thankful towards God for allowing you to be a part of it!<\/p>\n<p><b>Christ\u2019s Sacrifice:<\/b> Suppose that you just received news that you only had thirty minutes left to live. How much more would you appreciate your life\u2014and everything in it? You would appreciate <i>these things<\/i>, as the saying goes, \u201clike there\u2019s no tomorrow.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But you may have not realized that you are currently on <span class=\"small-caps\">death row<\/span>!<\/p>\n<p>Unless you are baptized, and have been redeemed from under the death penalty\u2014sin\u2014you are condemned to <i>death<\/i> (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Rom. 6:23<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Christ\u2014who is perfect and sinless\u2014shed His blood in our stead, dying for <i>our<\/i> sins. He became the Savior for this world and all humanity.<\/p>\n<p>Do you fully comprehend this knowledge? Do you appreciate this great sacrifice? Like an inmate being pardoned seconds before the switch on the electric chair is thrown, you must be grateful\u2014<i>truly thankful<\/i>\u2014for this redemption!<\/p>\n<p>Without these things, your life would be empty, shallow, miserable\u2014and completely <i>non-existent<\/i>!<\/p>\n<h4>Dealing With Ingratitude<\/h4>\n<p>One of the most awkward and difficult situations for a person is dealing with an ungrateful person. Someone once said, \u201cThe quickest way to earn someone\u2019s contempt is to do too much for them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>An example of this was when some who had received food stamps for years, then had their benefits revoked by the government. This caused quite a commotion\u2014many claimed to be victims of injustice. When in reality, they had long <i>received<\/i> something they did <i>not<\/i> earn.<\/p>\n<p>Many times, people find themselves in a position of having done things for others for such a long time, that the other party begins to feel that they deserve it. While there are many principles that can be applied in such situations, there are two basic rules that can be applied to better handle this problem.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u201cThe Golden Rule\u201d:<\/b> Many millions of professing Christians claim to follow the Bible. But why don\u2019t they follow the laws and principles from it? And why, if so many do enjoy being appreciated or treated with gratitude, are there so many ungrateful people?<\/p>\n<p>Matthew records, \u201cTherefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">7:12<\/a>, NKJV). Most know this as \u201cthe Golden Rule\u201d\u2014to treat others how you wish to be treated. Many quote this verse, but rarely practice it. Yet this principle is vital in combating the pulls and lusts of \u201cthe flesh\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Rom. 8<\/a>). This <i>includes<\/i> ingratitude.<\/p>\n<p>When someone does something for you, think to yourself, \u201cIf I did this for someone, wouldn\u2019t I like to receive a \u2018thank you\u2019?\u201d Chances are, you would. You must fight against your human nature and show gratitude.<\/p>\n<p>Paul records, \u201cFor what I would, that do I not; but what I <i>hate<\/i>, that do I\u201d (<a class=\"ren-link\" title=\"View scripture\">Rom. 7:15<\/a>). Paul, who was an apostle and had personal encounters with the glorified Christ, wrote that even <i>he<\/i> had difficulties combating the inner self. This evidences that it is <span class=\"small-caps\">difficult<\/span> to wage a war against the wicked, evil and sinful self! But with humility towards God, and asking for His help, it is <i>possible<\/i>!<\/p>\n<p><b>The Principle of Cause and Effect: <\/b>The principle of <i>cause<\/i> and <i>effect<\/i> is all around us. If the floor is wet, someone may slip and fall. If a car runs over a nail, the tire will become flat. This is common sense.<\/p>\n<p>This principle can be described another way: Every <i>action<\/i> has a <i>reaction<\/i>. In examining today\u2019s society, many do not recognize that this principle applies in their lives\u2014through more ways than just the physical.<\/p>\n<p>After Lucifer\u2019s rebellion, he became the \u201cprince of the power of the air,\u201d and the \u201cgod of this world.\u201d Since then, Satan\u2019s way of life\u2014the <span class=\"small-caps\">get<\/span> way\u2014has pummeled humanity with his selfish, proud, rebellious and ungrateful attitudes. This is the <span class=\"small-caps\">cause<\/span>!<\/p>\n<p>The <span class=\"small-caps\">effect<\/span> is the <i>attitude<\/i> present in society at large. Tuned into \u201cthe prince of the power of the air,\u201d humanity has had a materialistic, selfish, \u201cme-first\u201d existence. They are following their god.<\/p>\n<p>This is <span class=\"small-caps\">cause<\/span> and <span class=\"small-caps\">effect<\/span>!<\/p>\n<p>People always notice when others are rude to <i>them<\/i>\u2014a purely selfish action. They often think, \u201cLook at how rude people are towards <i>me<\/i>\u2026<i>I <\/i>am not being appreciated\u2026<i>I<\/i> did not receive a \u2018thank you\u2019 for kindness that <i>I<\/i> performed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This is the initial <i>action<\/i> that gets people to <i>react<\/i> in the same rude, ungrateful attitudes demonstrated to them. Although they did not appreciate it when they were on the receiving end, they \u201cdish it out,\u201d because they feel that they were treated unfairly.<\/p>\n<p>This cycle has always been in effect throughout mankind\u2019s history. After 6,000 years of injustice, misrule and destruction, ingratitude is merely one of the many \u201ceffects\u201d mankind has brought upon itself!<\/p>\n<h4>The Choice is Yours<\/h4>\n<p>Always remember that ingratitude is a <i>deadly<\/i> sin. God directly calls it <i>evil<\/i>! An ungrateful attitude is something that most are unaware that they have, but everyone else sees! It is a deep character flaw. Although few will tell you about it, ingratitude sticks out like a sore thumb.<\/p>\n<p>Often, it goes unchanged and untreated, because of people\u2019s ignorance of it. It is something that, after many years of \u201cperfecting,\u201d needs to be <i>completely<\/i> removed!<\/p>\n<p>Remember Israel\u2019s example. They grumbled, complained and showed ingratitude because they were afraid of being unable to overcome the \u201cgiants\u201d that might have kept them from the Promised Land. But in reality, the only \u201cgiant\u201d that held them back from enjoying this great blessing from God was their <i>ingratitude<\/i>! An entire generation\u2014except for two men\u2014died without seeing this land!<\/p>\n<p>Learn from this example. An ungrateful attitude exists in our human nature. But simple steps can be taken to overcome it. By honestly analyzing yourself, and applying biblical rules and principles of etiquette, you can <span class=\"small-caps\">ensure<\/span> that you are not committing this most common\u2014and <span class=\"small-caps\">deadly<\/span>\u2014sin.<\/p>\n<p>Remember Paul\u2019s three commands for true Christians:<\/p>\n<p>(1) \u201cRejoice evermore.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>(2) \u201cPray without ceasing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>(3) \u201cIn <i>everything give thanks.<\/i>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Do not let this sin keep <i>you<\/i> from God\u2019s many promises! Do not let it steal your happiness. 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