{"id":1536,"date":"2017-10-28T17:20:34","date_gmt":"2017-10-28T22:20:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vnsalvation.org\/?p=1536"},"modified":"2019-12-10T14:09:27","modified_gmt":"2019-12-10T14:09:27","slug":"muoi-bi-quyet-de-xay-dung-mot-gia-dinh-hanh-phuc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/muoi-bi-quyet-de-xay-dung-mot-gia-dinh-hanh-phuc\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Khi b\u00e1o ch\u00ed T\u00e2n T\u00e2y Lan h\u1ecfi M\u1ee5c s\u01b0 v\u00e0 b\u00e0 Billy Graham: “L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac?” \u00d4ng b\u00e0 M\u1ee5c s\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u00e0 qua 10 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft sau:<\/p>\n

1- LU\u00d4N LU\u00d4N \u0110\u1ec2 CH\u00daA L\u00c0M CH\u1ee6 TRONG GIA \u0110\u00ccNH<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m l\u00e0 m\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m Ch\u1ee7, gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1eddi Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m Ch\u1ee7 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng tin Ch\u00faa m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt. C\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i k\u00ednh m\u1ebfn Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m theo l\u1eddi Ng\u00e0i. Trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecfi \u00fd Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh theo ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n Ch\u00faa d\u1ea1y trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh “c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddI, “v\u00ec v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin, c\u00f9ng quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi nhau trong nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c tin l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi nhau, th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi nhau trong nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? \u0110\u1ee9c tin l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00ean trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ee9c tin ra ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tin c\u1eady Ch\u00faa, y\u00eau m\u1ebfn Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m Ch\u1ee7.<\/p>\n

2- T\u1eacP CH\u1ea4P NH\u1eacN NHAU<\/strong><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n, n\u00ean khi ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a nhau. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u00fa \u00fd d\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, s\u01a1 s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a nhau. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, to\u00e0n h\u00e3o nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, nh\u01b0ng n\u00ean c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho nhau, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch k\u00edch l\u1ec7, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y trong th\u01b0 \u00eaph\u00eas\u00f4 4:32 l\u00e0 “H\u00e3y \u1edf v\u1edbi nhau c\u00e1ch nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb, \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1eaby l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t, tha th\u1ee9 nhau nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tha th\u1ee9 anh em trong \u0110\u1ea5ng Chirst v\u1eady.”<\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu x\u00f3t v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3. \u0110\u1eebng cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan, t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi hay t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, nh\u01b0ng n\u00ean th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t Ch\u00faa, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

3- C\u1ed0 G\u1eaeNG L\u00c0M TR\u00d2N B\u1ed4N PH\u1eacN TR\u00c1CH NHI\u1ec6M C\u1ee6A M\u00ccNH<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea5n \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u1ee3 con v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1ee3 con trong s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n th\u1edd v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh Ch\u00faa. N\u1ebfu xao l\u00e3ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u1ea7y, gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u1eefa. Kinh Th\u00e1nh c\u0169ng d\u1ea1y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c ch\u1ed3ng, lo s\u0103n s\u00f3c vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, y\u00eau ch\u1ed3ng con. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhau v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng nhau ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nhau.<\/p>\n

4- C\u1ed0 G\u1eaeNG GI\u1eec S\u1ef0 C\u1edeI M\u1ede – TH\u00c2N M\u1eacT V\u1edaI NHAU<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed5 ly d\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec trong th\u1eddi gian chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt, th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng; ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0i c\u00e2u th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, g\u1eafng g\u01b0\u1ee3ng. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n hay trao \u0111\u1ed5i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec, n\u00ean c\u00f3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n hay h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u0169ng b\u1eb1ng th\u1eeba, xin \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ee7 nhau \u0111i \u0103n ti\u1ec7m, qu\u00ed v\u1ecb th\u1eed \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd ng\u1ed3i \u0103n c\u1ea3 bu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n, mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau nhau h\u01a1n, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau, h\u1ecfi han nhau, t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh chia s\u1ebb m\u1ecdi vui bu\u1ed3n, m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3m ngh\u1ec9 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 chia s\u1ebb m\u1ecdi vui bu\u1ed3n, c\u00f3 t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nhau c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf, th\u00ec t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0 v\u00e0 kh\u1eafng kh\u00edt h\u01a1n. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu m\u1ea1nh ai n\u1ea5y s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00e8m n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u1ea3, th\u00ec d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 xa l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

5- TH\u1ec8NH THO\u1ea2NG N\u00caN \u0110\u1ec2 TH\u00ec GI\u1edc RI\u00caNG T\u01af\u00a0 V\u1edaI NHAU<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tuy trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu l\u00e0m \u0103n sinh s\u1ed1ng, b\u1eadn lo cho con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay con c\u00e1i qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y. Nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi gi\u1edd \u0111i ri\u00eang nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n cho hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ecbp v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng nhau c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang t\u01b0, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nhau, nung n\u1ea5u l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ban \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u00ec gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, lo l\u1eafng trong th\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/p>\n

Sau n\u1ea7y khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0, con c\u00e1i ra \u1edf ri\u00eang, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u1ed1ng v\u1eafng, ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng khi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau. Nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi gi\u1edd \u0111i ri\u00eang nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u0169ng l\u00e0 d\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0n t\u00ednh chuy\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 th\u1ea7m k\u00edn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

6- N\u00caN T\u00ecM C\u00c1CH S\u1eecA \u0110\u1ed4I C\u00c1C THI\u1ebeU S\u00f3T V\u00c0 T\u1eea B\u1ece C\u00c1C T\u1eacT X\u1ea4U C\u1ee6A M\u00ccNH<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong th\u1eddi gian chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu x\u00f3t v\u00e0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a nhau. Nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e3i v\u1ea3, nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. N\u1ebfu hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb tan v\u1edf v\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u l\u1ea9m c\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 m\u00e0 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i, ho\u1eb7c t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u01b0a th\u00edch. \u0110\u1eebng v\u00ec t\u1ef1 \u00e1i m\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p, b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng \u00edch l\u1ee3i g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh, cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee7ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean l\u00e0 khi m\u00ecnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i qu\u00ean m\u00ecnh \u0111i, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, v\u00ed nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa d\u1ea1y: “Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 hai n\u1eefa m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t.” V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m Ch\u1ee7, th\u00ec s\u1ebd nh\u1edb l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa d\u1ea1y l\u00e0: “T\u1eeb b\u1ecf c\u00e1c t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u, s\u1eefa \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m v\u1ec1 l\u1ee3i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a k\u1ebd kh\u00e1c.”<\/p>\n

7- THA TH\u1ee8 CHO NHAU<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhau, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m nhau, ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eadn nhau v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u1eadn l\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m ho\u00e0 v\u1edbi nhau b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u, xin l\u1ed7i nhau r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf qua. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m to chuy\u1ec7n ra, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. N\u00ean gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u1eadn ai n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh gi\u1eadn l\u00e2u, \u0111\u1eebng gh\u00ecm gi\u1eef l\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia v\u00e0o trong l\u00f2ng, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, v\u00ec s\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 l\u1edbn m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa d\u1ea1y: “. .. ch\u1edb c\u0103m gi\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi l\u1eb7n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 ma qu\u1ec9 nh\u00e2n dip ” (\u00eaph\u00eas\u00f4 4:26) v\u00e0 trong Thi Thi\u00ean 37 d\u1ea1y: “H\u00e3y b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn ho\u1ea3ng, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y ch\u1eb3ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec. ….” m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t tai h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m h\u00f2a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i nhau, ch\u1edb \u0111\u1eebng kh\u01b0 kh\u01b0 cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i h\u1ebft cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. \u0110\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u00e8n nh\u00e1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

8- \u0110\u1eeaNG S\u1ed0NG \u00cdCH K\u1ef6<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00e2ng, \u00edch k\u1ef7 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 b\u1eb1ng t\u00ednh \u00edch k\u1ef7 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 v\u1ee3 con, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh n\u1eef. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 ngh\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng cho m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed3ng con, s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng con \u0111au kh\u1ed5, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tho\u1ea3 l\u00f2ng. V\u00ec \u00edch k\u1ef7 l\u00e0 t\u00f4n th\u1edd c\u00e1i “t\u00f4i” c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 khi c\u00e1i t\u00f4i nh\u1ea3y l\u00ean l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7, th\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u01b0\u01a1ng tay v\u1edbi ai c\u1ea3. L\u00f2ng tham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 tho\u1ea3 l\u00f2ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

V\u00e2ng, s\u1ed1ng \u00edch k\u1ef7 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh nhanh nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec th\u1ebf mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ch\u1eb7n \u0111\u1ee9ng t\u00ednh \u00edch k\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

9- H\u00c3Y LO TRAO GI\u1ed2I \u0110\u1edcI S\u1ed0NG T\u00c2M LINH C\u1ee6A M\u00ccNH<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng h\u1ec3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau, s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean nhau s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng y\u00eau nhau tha thi\u1ebft l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u1eabn ly d\u1ecb, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u tin Ch\u00faa! T\u1ea1i sao? V\u00ec hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadt ra ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00eau tr\u00ean, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tin k\u00ednh Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n non n\u1edbt, c\u00f2n con n\u00edt trong Ch\u00faa. Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, tha thi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, chu to\u00e0n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, ch\u1ecbu t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh x\u1ea5u, v\u00e0 m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng hy sinh, v\u1ecb tha qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta \u0103n \u1edf, c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tin k\u00ednh Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1ecdc Galati 5:19 v\u00e0 c\u00e2u 22 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00e1c nhau ra sau. V\u00e0 c\u0103n c\u1ee9 tr\u00ean hai c\u00e2u Kinh Th\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh hay ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, n\u00ean d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 tin Ch\u00faa r\u1ed3i, c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ng\u01b0ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00eam. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch trao gi\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tin k\u00ednh Ch\u00faa h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng s\u00e2u nhi\u1ec7m trong Ch\u00faa, c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng Jesus h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00eam, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu trao gi\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee5c, nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00ec tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7nh gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 xa nhau. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft Ch\u00faa, y\u00eau k\u00ednh Ch\u00faa t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, hi\u1ec7p m\u1ed9t v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00ec hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

10- H\u00c3Y \u0110\u1ec2 CH\u00daA BAN PH\u01af\u1edaC CHO GIA \u0110\u00ecNH<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00faa cho ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta h\u01b0\u1edfng ri\u00eang m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Do \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 thu h\u00fat \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. Ngo\u00e0i ra gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f2n gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang khao kh\u00e1t, \u0111\u1ec3 khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n

Bi\u1ebft bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u00e8m mong h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1eadt! Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1ea5y trong t\u1ea7m tay, v\u1eady h\u00e3y v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1ea5y s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

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