{"id":4518,"date":"2018-04-09T21:34:01","date_gmt":"2018-04-10T02:34:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vnsalvation.org\/?p=4518"},"modified":"2021-06-28T15:21:46","modified_gmt":"2021-06-28T15:21:46","slug":"bai-so-54-hay-day-do-con-cai-biet-kinh-so-duc-gie-ho-va","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/bai-so-54-hay-day-do-con-cai-biet-kinh-so-duc-gie-ho-va\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u00c0I S\u1ed0 54-H\u00c3Y D\u1ea0Y D\u1ed4 CON C\u00c1I BI\u1ebeT K\u00cdNH S\u1ee2 \u0110\u1ee8C GI\u00ca-H\u00d4-VA :"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/vnsalvation.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/54-300x250.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-7680\" \/>B\u00c0I S\u1ed0 54-H\u00c3Y D\u1ea0Y D\u1ed4 CON C\u00c1I BI\u1ebeT K\u00cdNH S\u1ee2 \u0110\u1ee8C GI\u00ca-H\u00d4-VA :<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00e2m-Ng\u00f4n 22:6:\u201d H\u00e3y d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb-th\u01a1 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i theo; D\u1ea7u khi n\u00f3 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00eca-kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3. \u201c<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o gia \u0111\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 Kinh Th\u00e1nh, v\u00ec Ng\u00e0i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5ng t\u1ea1o h\u00f3a t\u1ea1o ra con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta cho n\u00ean Ng\u00e0i bi\u1ebft r\u1ecf h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e2ng theo l\u1eddi Kinh Th\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y cho con c\u00e1i h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng v\u00ec c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu con c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9. Trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh, c\u00f3 hai nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u1ea5t trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u00f4ng M\u00f4i se v\u00e0 \u00f4ng Vua Sa-l\u00f4-m\u00f4n. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u00e3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trai tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 ru\u1ed9t ch\u0103m s\u00f3c d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nu\u00f4i. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Ch\u00faa b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi chung trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>I-H\u00c3Y NH\u1eda BI\u1ec6T RI\u00caNG EM B\u00c9 D\u00c2NG N\u00d3 CHO \u0110\u1ee8C GI\u00ca-H\u00d4-VA L\u00daC C\u00d2N TRONG B\u1ee4NG M\u1eb8.<br \/>\nH\u00e3y d\u00e2ng con m\u00ecnh cho \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00ea-h\u00f4-va l\u00fac c\u00f2n trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, h\u1ea7u n\u00f3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean s\u1ebd h\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c Ng\u00e0i. Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, g\u00ecn gi\u1eed b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb b\u00e9 cho \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y n\u00f3 kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn.<br \/>\nN\u1ebfu l\u00e0 b\u00e9 trai th\u00ec n\u00ean n\u00f3i b\u00e1c s\u1ec9 c\u1eaft b\u00ec cho b\u00e9 l\u00fac 8 ng\u00e0y tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 d\u00e2ng b\u00e9 cho Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ec3 Ng\u00e0i g\u00ecn gi\u1eed b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u00e2n tuy\u1ec3n ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n d\u00e2ng con trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho Ch\u00faa gi\u1ed1ng d\u00e2n tuy\u1ec3n ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa khi x\u01b0a l\u00e0 d\u00e2n y-s\u01a1-ra-\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa bao b\u1ecdc, g\u00ecn gi\u1eed, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 cho b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u01b0 d\u00f2ng gi\u1ed1ng d\u00e2n Do Th\u00e1i v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eaft b\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh, v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec7t ri\u00eang ra cho Ch\u00faa. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eaft b\u00ec gi\u00fap cho \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 trai \u00edt b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh n\u01a1i ch\u1ed5 k\u00edn l\u00fac c\u00f2n b\u00e9 h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 khi b\u00e9 l\u1edbn l\u00ean \u00edt b\u1ecb t\u00e0 d\u00e2m, th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m, d\u00e2m d\u1ee5c h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1eaft b\u00ec kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 sinh l\u00fd gi\u1ea3m \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi trai tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ph\u1ea7n th\u00e2n x\u00e1c \u00edt b\u1ecb k\u00edch th\u00edch h\u01a1n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nhanh nh\u1eb9n h\u01a1n. S\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1eaft b\u00ec cho b\u00e9 trai ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 do cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh bi\u1ec7t ri\u00eang b\u00e9 ra cho Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 v\u00e2ng theo l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i y nh\u01b0 trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 c\u1ef1u \u01b0\u1edbc cho d\u00e2n Y-s\u01a1-ra-\u00ean khi x\u01b0a. S\u1ef1 d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ee9a con trai m\u00ecnh, c\u1eaft b\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n, t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng cho s\u1ef1 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a l\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00f2ng \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi.<br \/>\nH\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec1 cao c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c, xem ch\u1eebng khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, thay t\u00e3 t\u1eafm r\u1eeda em b\u00e9 l\u00fac c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. Hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f3 camera xem l\u00fac m\u00ecnh v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t quay phim l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 xem x\u00e9t c\u00f3 ai l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ea9n th\u01b0\u1eddng hay h\u00f4n h\u00edt, n\u1ef1ng n\u1ecbu, s\u1edd m\u00f3 ch\u1ed5 k\u00edn c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho b\u00e9, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i b\u00e9 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ma qu\u1ef7 ki\u1ec7n c\u00e1o nh\u1eadp ph\u00e1 b\u00e9. B\u00e9 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 sinh l\u00fd qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm cho n\u00ean d\u1ec3 b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o t\u1ed9i t\u00e0 d\u00e2m r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm. M\u1eddi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n xem b\u00e0i s\u1ed1 47 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft th\u00eam chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1ea7y.<br \/>\nH\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec1 cao c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 r\u00ecnh xem m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh c\u00f3 ai s\u1edd m\u00f3 ch\u1ed5 k\u00edn c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ng\u0103n ch\u1eadn k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t ch\u1eebng n\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>II-H\u00c3Y CH\u00da TR\u1eccNG V\u00c0O NG\u01af\u1edcI NU\u00d4I D\u01af\u1ee0NG, CH\u0102M S\u00d3C B\u00c9 L\u00c0 AI? M\u1eb8 RU\u1ed8T C\u1ee6A B\u00c9 PH\u1ea2I NU\u00d4I D\u01af\u1ee0NG B\u00c9 L\u00c0 T\u1ed0T NH\u1ea4T. SAU \u0110\u00d3 L\u00c0 B\u00c0 NGO\u1ea0I HAY B\u00c0 N\u1ed8I. \u0110EM CHO NG\u01af\u1edcI GI\u1eec TR\u1eba CH\u0102M S\u00d3C L\u00c0 H\u1ea0I CON M\u00ccNH L\u00c2U D\u00c0I M\u00c0 KH\u00d4NG HAY BI\u1ebeT.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i \u1edf nh\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00e9 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111i t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u00e1n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5 th\u00eam ti\u1ec1n gi\u00fap gia \u0111\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c nu\u00f4i v\u1ee3 con th\u00ec v\u1ee3 n\u00ean \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u1ed3ng con cho chu \u0111\u00e1o, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 \u0111em con g\u1eedi cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tin Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng theo d\u1ecfi xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eed b\u00e9 l\u00e0m g\u00ec. M\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian sau khi m\u1eb9 b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y b\u00e9 l\u1ea5y c\u00e2y th\u1eafp nhang l\u1ea1y l\u1ea1y g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eb9 b\u00e9 h\u1ecfi con l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady? B\u00e9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u00e9 th\u1eafp nhang th\u1edd l\u1ea1y th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u1ea7y ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 \u0111em b\u00e9 \u0111i g\u1eedi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tin Ch\u00faa. H\u1ecfi ra m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n \u0111\u1ed3 c\u00fang v\u00e0 th\u1edd l\u1ea1y th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eed tr\u1ebb h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u con m\u00ecnh cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngu \u0111\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec h\u1ebft. \u00c2m m\u01b0u c\u1ee7a ma qu\u1ef7 nh\u1eadp ph\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eed tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat x\u00f3t th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecd cho u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c an th\u1ea7n cho b\u00e9 ng\u1ee7 su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 gi\u1eed b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e9 tr\u1ea7y tay ch\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb theo d\u1ecfi b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i hay b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i c\u00f3 c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa hay ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng? Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y con m\u00ecnh n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y ch\u00e1u n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu v\u00e0 cho \u0103n u\u1ed1ng b\u1eady b\u1ea1 l\u00e0m cho b\u00e9 ham \u0103n, h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng, mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ea5y, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 c\u00e2u:\u201d Con h\u01b0 t\u1ea1i m\u1eb9, ch\u00e1u h\u01b0 t\u1ea1i b\u00e0.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>III-B\u00c9 H\u01af H\u1eceNG L\u00c0 V\u00cc CHA M\u1eb8 B\u00c9 C\u01afNG CH\u00ccU B\u00c9, XEM NH\u01af C\u1ee4C V\u00c0NG, C\u1ee4C NG\u1eccC, NH\u01af L\u00c0 CH\u00daA.<\/p>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00e3 v\u1ee3 l\u1ea9n ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i ra th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 b\u00e9 th\u00ec t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c con m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u00e0nh ra \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1eebng m\u1eb7t, kh\u00f3 d\u1ea1y. Khi Cha d\u1ea1y th\u00ec ch\u1ea1y l\u1ea1i \u00f4m m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00eanh, hay ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v.v. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00e3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm s\u00e1ch v\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o cho con c\u00e1i l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00e3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng qu\u00e1 c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu b\u00e9, mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ea5y, h\u1ec3 kh\u00f3c l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean b\u00e9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u1eafp s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00ec v\u00e0o l\u1edbp ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. B\u00e9 n\u1ea7y s\u1ebd l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft chi, s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m vua m\u1ed9t c\u1ecfi, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ecb b\u1ecdn h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea1o b\u00e1ng, c\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ea, c\u00f4 l\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u1ea7y \u00edt c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00e1i b\u1ea9y c\u1ee7a ma qu\u1ef7 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ki\u1ec7n c\u00e1o cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 xem \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ch\u00faa v\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ma qu\u1ef7 \u0111\u00e1nh ph\u00e1, \u0111\u1ee9a con ng\u1ed5 ngh\u1ecbch kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9, ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch, la h\u00e9t om x\u00f2m, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng y\u00ean \u1ed5n nh\u01b0 x\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa.<br \/>\nN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf trong t\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u1ea7y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y mau mau \u0103n n\u0103n t\u1ed9i l\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, quay \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i 180 \u0111\u1ed9, \u0111\u1ec3 Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i, cho roi v\u1ecdt v\u00e0o m\u00f4ng \u0111\u00edt n\u00f3, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9u linh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng m\u00e0 h\u01b0 m\u1ea5t linh h\u1ed3n.<br \/>\nX\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a con ng\u1ed5 ngh\u1ecbch v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu, l\u1edbn l\u00ean l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 khi \u0111\u1ee9a con tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn 30-40 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 v\u1eabn l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, t\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0103n b\u00e1m v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00ec \u0111i l\u00e0m th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vua m\u1ed9t c\u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ai h\u1ebft, l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c. T\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec b\u1ecb ch\u00ea, kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 hay l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 l\u1edf l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng hay c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3 xong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn c\u0169ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1, tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0103n b\u00e1m cha m\u1eb9 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ebft. Cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 nua \u0111\u1ee9a con kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1edfng cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 nua c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 l\u1ea1i r\u00fat r\u1ec9a ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft cho ai g\u00ec h\u1ebft m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u00edch k\u1ef7, x\u1ea5u xa, b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng x\u00e0i. Khi \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0 th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tu\u1ed5i c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. Th\u1eddi gian qua r\u1ea5t nhanh ch\u00f3ng, m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c l\u00e1t \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. C\u00e1i c\u00e2y c\u00f2n non d\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn th\u00ec n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ee9ng r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa.<br \/>\nHy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf d\u1ea1i h\u00e3y d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 ch\u00fang n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n t\u1ed1t cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i mai sau. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5, c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbn l\u00ean l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u01b0\u1edbp tr\u00f4m, c\u01b0\u1edbp b\u00f3c, gi\u1ef1t d\u1ecdc, x\u00ec ke, ma t\u00fay, b\u1ecb ng\u1ed3i t\u00f9, l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cho cha m\u1eb9, nh\u1ee5c nh\u1ea3 d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd, l\u00e0m nh\u1ee5c nh\u00e3 cho danh Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n<p>IV-KHI \u0110\u1ee8A CON TR\u1ede N\u00caN V\u1eca TH\u00c0NH NI\u00caN (13-19 TU\u1ed4I) KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN LA R\u1ea6Y, \u0110\u00c1NH \u0110\u1eacP, M\u1eaeNG NHI\u1ebeC, \u0110\u00d2I \u0110U\u1ed4I CON \u0110I N\u1ebeU KH\u00d4NG CH\u1ecaU V\u00c2NG L\u1edcI CHA M\u1eb8.<\/p>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean l\u00e0 \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i 13-19 tu\u1ed5i (teenage), tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Tu\u1ed5i n\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con n\u00edt n\u1eefa m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh r\u1ed3i cho n\u00ean r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, n\u00f3ng t\u00e1nh, qu\u1ea1o qu\u1ecd, hay g\u00e2y g\u1ed5 v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9. Ch\u00fang n\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 cao l\u1edbn, \u0111\u1ee9ng cao b\u1eb1ng hay cao h\u01a1n cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang t\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n cha m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa. H\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 r\u1ea7y la l\u00e0 ch\u00fang n\u00f3ng t\u00e1nh, qu\u1ea1o qu\u1ecd, tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u1ea1i cha m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i x\u00e1ch \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 ra \u0111i nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Tu\u1ed5i n\u1ea7y l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 d\u1ea1y nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00ec gi\u1edd ri\u00eang t\u01b0 cho n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 ch\u00f3ng l\u1edbn tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, b\u1edfi v\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t nam c\u00f3 c\u00e2u:\u201d d\u1ea1y con d\u1ea1y th\u1edf c\u00f2n th\u01a1, d\u1ea1y v\u1ee3 d\u1ea1y thu\u1edf ban s\u01a1 m\u1edbi v\u1ec1.\u201d Hormone trong \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u00ean l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u1ec9 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho n\u00ean c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean n\u1ea7y v\u00e0 t\u1eadp cho n\u00f3 t\u00e1nh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ee9 \u1edf xa canh ch\u1eebng xem \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai th\u00ec u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5, khuy\u00ean l\u1edbn cho n\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadt cha m\u1eb9 thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 con tu\u1ed5i n\u1ea7y b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 ra \u0111i theo b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u00fat x\u00ec ke ma t\u00fay, kh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u1ea7y. Khi con h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng r\u1ed3i th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 \u00e2n h\u1eadn su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 can thi\u1ec7p, ph\u00e9p l\u1ea1 nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa.<br \/>\nNh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang \u1edf trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u1ea7y h\u00e3y mau qu\u1ef3 g\u1ed1i xu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, \u0103n n\u0103n t\u1ed9i l\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh theo c\u00e1ch 5 ng\u00f3n tay v\u1ec1 t\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 con c\u00e1i trong l\u00fac n\u00f3 c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, v\u00e0 v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1ea9n v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh trong tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, r\u1ea7y la con c\u00e1i cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 ra \u0111i h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng theo b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u00fat s\u00e1ch, r\u1ef1u ch\u00e8, x\u00ec ke, ma t\u00fay, v.v. H\u00e3y mau ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 xin Cha th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t, l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p l\u1ea1, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c b\u1ee9t ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf v\u1ec1, v\u00e0o trung t\u00e2m cai nghi\u1ec7n n\u00e0o m\u00e0 c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u00ecnh mau tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea9y v\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ma qu\u1ef7 n\u1ea7y. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd r\u1ed3i. C\u1ea3m t\u1ea1 \u01a1n Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n<p>V-CHA M\u1eb8 KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN \u00d4M CON TRAI HAY CON G\u00c1I M\u00ccNH V\u00c0O L\u00d2NG M\u00c0 HUN H\u00cdT HAY CHO CON H\u00d4N H\u00cdT M\u00ccNH KHI CON \u0110\u00c3 \u0110\u1ebeN TU\u1ed4I BI\u1ebeT Y\u00caU V\u00c0 BI\u1ebeT D\u00c2M D\u1ee4C.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec1 cao c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c khi cha s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n \u00f4m \u1ea5p con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 l\u00fac c\u00f2n b\u00e9, hay m\u1eb9 s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n con trai qu\u00e1 sinh ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb khi \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft y\u00eau. Khi v\u1eeba m\u1edbi l\u1edbn, con m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0o l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111o\u00e1n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 d\u00e2m d\u1ee5c nam n\u1eef th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean gi\u1eed kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch cho con m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 con g\u00e1i th\u1ea7m y\u00eau cha m\u00ecnh hay con trai th\u1ea7m y\u00eau m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u gh\u00ea t\u1edfm tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00ea-h\u00f4-va. Ma qu\u1ef7 ki\u1ec7n c\u00e1o \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i lo\u1ea1n lu\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e0 d\u00e2m th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm, kho\u1ea3ng 4-5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ed3i, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i 17-18 20 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 v\u1ea9n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n trong tr\u1eafng, th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn xem nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 d\u1ea9n d\u1eaft con m\u00ecnh n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng \u00e2n h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 sau.<\/p>\n<p>VI-CH\u00daA D\u1ea0Y B\u1ea2O: PH\u1ea2I S\u1eecA PH\u1ea0T TR\u1eba TH\u01a0 \u0110\u00c1NH N\u00d3 B\u1eb0NG ROI V\u1eccT:<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n 23:13-14:\u201d13Ch\u1edb tha s\u1eeda-ph\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb-th\u01a1; D\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e1nh n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng roi-v\u1ecdt, n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u. 14Khi con \u0111\u00e1nh n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng roi-v\u1ecdt, \u1eaet gi\u1ea3i-c\u1ee9u linh-h\u1ed3n n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi \u00c2m-ph\u1ee7.\u201d<br \/>\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u:\u201d Th\u01b0\u01a1ng con cho roi cho v\u1ecdt, gh\u00e9t con cho ng\u1ecdt cho b\u00f9i.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00fa \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ngu \u0111\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y b\u00e0n tay m\u00ecnh t\u00e1t v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t con v\u00ec n\u00f3ng t\u00e1nh. Khi n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y con m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y ch\u1edd cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi m\u00ecnh b\u00ecnh t\u1ec9nh m\u1edbi \u0111em chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ra m\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 cho n\u00f3 n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh con v\u00ec gi\u1eadn v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn c\u00e1 ch\u00e9m th\u1edbt, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y gh\u00ea t\u1edfm tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t Ch\u00faa. Ai c\u00f3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf h\u00e3y \u0103n n\u0103n t\u1ed9i l\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i. Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1i m\u00f4ng \u0111\u00edt l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 cu\u1ed1i xu\u1ed1ng qu\u1ea5t roi v\u00e0 m\u00f4ng \u0111\u00edt n\u00f3. D\u00f9ng c\u00e2y nh\u1ecf qu\u1ea5t \u0111\u00edt n\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111au r\u1ed3i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft n\u00f3 cu\u1ed1i xu\u1ed1ng qu\u1ea5t \u0111\u00edt th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o n\u00f3 2 l\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 v\u1ea9n c\u1ee9ng l\u00f2ng, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00ec l\u00e0m sai th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 ba b\u1eaft n\u00f3 cu\u1ed1i xu\u1ed1ng qu\u1ea5t \u0111\u00edt n\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, l\u1ea7n sau khi l\u1ea5y c\u00e2y roi nh\u1ecbp nh\u1ecbp v\u00e0 n\u00f3i s\u1ebd b\u1eaft n\u00f3 cu\u1ed1i xu\u1ed1ng qu\u1ea5t \u0111\u00edt n\u00f3, th\u00ec n\u00f3 li\u1ec1n nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 ngay. Ch\u00faa t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ra con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay con th\u00fa c\u00f3 tr\u00ed nh\u1edb nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7 n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00f4i, l\u1ea7n sau nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh l\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi ngay.<br \/>\nL\u00fac c\u00f2n th\u01a1 l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i b\u1eadp b\u1eb9, m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i, 2-3 tu\u1ed5i ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5, l\u1ea5y c\u00e2y roi nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0o m\u00f4ng \u0111\u00edt n\u00f3 d\u1ea1y cho n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ai l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00f3. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng tu\u1ed5i n\u1ea7y l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01b0ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec ai c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00e9 c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec h\u1ebft cho n\u00ean c\u1ee9 c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu, mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ea5y. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u1ebfn 5-6 tu\u1ed5i b\u00e9 c\u1ea5p s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec tr\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec3, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb em ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean th\u00ec v\u1ea9n c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea1y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1eeb tu\u1ed5i 13 tr\u1edf \u0111i th\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 em b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 to l\u1edbn r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00ean d\u1ea1y d\u1ed5 cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 sau:<br \/>\n-D\u1ea1y b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u Kinh Th\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 theo b\u00e9 su\u1ed1t tr\u1ecdn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 Thi-Thi\u00ean 1; Thi Thi\u00ean 23; Thi-Thi\u00ean 91; v.v.<br \/>\n-Bi\u1ebft k\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean, nh\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1edbi, v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9, \u00f4ng b\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng tham lam, kh\u00f4ng \u0103n c\u00e1p ti\u1ec1n, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng \u00edch k\u1ef9 x\u1ea5u xa.<br \/>\n-Ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh. Cho b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t con ch\u00f3 hay con m\u00e8o \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t d\u1ea1y cho b\u00e9 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u00fang n\u00f3, gi\u00fap b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau th\u00fa v\u1eadt, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u1ea7n g\u1ee7i th\u00fa v\u1eadt l\u00fac c\u00f2n b\u00e9.<br \/>\n-H\u00e3y t\u1eadp cho tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, gi\u00fap l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb l\u00fac c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i c\u1eafp s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng. (ph\u1ee5 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n, qu\u00e9t nh\u00e0, lau nh\u00e0, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u00f3, m\u00e8o.v.v)<br \/>\n-H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i v\u1edf t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111em v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m d\u00f9m b\u00e9.<br \/>\n-H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u00e9 t\u1ef1 t\u1eafm r\u1eeda, \u0111\u00fat \u0103n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, thay qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, c\u00e1ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t cho b\u00e9.<br \/>\n-H\u00e3y t\u1eadp cho b\u00e9 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ph\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap n\u00f3 d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec h\u01b0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<br \/>\n-H\u00e3y b\u00e0n t\u00ednh v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cho con quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecdc m\u00f4n n\u00e0o n\u00f3 th\u00edch h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9t con m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 th\u00edch. Cha m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t Nam th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft con m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u00edch m\u00e0 con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00ec l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vui l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh.<br \/>\n-D\u1ea1y con \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eed g\u00ecn trinh ti\u1ebft, h\u00e3y c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 giao h\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh cho Ch\u00faa lo li\u1ec7u, c\u1ea7u xin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00f2ng tin n\u01a1i Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0a d\u1eaft m\u1ed9t n\u1eefa c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u00e1 v\u01a1, g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eady b\u1ea1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi.<br \/>\n-N\u1ebfu con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n d\u00e2ng c\u00e3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi hy sinh \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c Ch\u00faa th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00e9p bu\u1ed9t con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00e2u. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i n\u00ean t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 \u0111\u1edf lo l\u1eafng ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1ee9a con s\u1ebd th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft v\u00ec n\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i s\u1ebd lo li\u1ec7u cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o trong \u00fd th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i.<\/p>\n<p>Mong r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi vi\u1ebft trong b\u00e0i n\u1ea7y \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m sao nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con m\u00ecnh n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 trai m\u00e0 n\u00f3 21 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i. M\u1ed5i l\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn b\u00e9 trai m\u00e0 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3i nhau mu\u1ed1n ly d\u1ecb nhau. Ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba t\u1ea1i v\u1ee3 c\u01b0ng ch\u00ecu n\u00f3 cho n\u00ean h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng, v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y con. M\u1ed5i l\u1ea7n b\u00e9 21 tu\u1ed5i mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec th\u00ec ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t v\u1ea3y hai ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ea1ch hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Xin Cha th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cho nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh, gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh cho con ch\u00e1u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u d\u0169ng s\u0129 cho nh\u00e0 Ch\u00faa trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Amen!<\/p>\n<p>(Vi\u1ebft b\u1ee1i s\u1ef1 soi d\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Cha, s\u1ef1 soi s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Linh trong Danh Ch\u00faa Jesus)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u00c0I S\u1ed0 54-H\u00c3Y D\u1ea0Y D\u1ed4 CON C\u00c1I BI\u1ebeT K\u00cdNH S\u1ee2 \u0110\u1ee8C GI\u00ca-H\u00d4-VA : Ch\u00e2m-Ng\u00f4n 22:6:\u201d H\u00e3y d\u1ea1y cho<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":108,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"","fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[65,95],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-4518","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gieo-trong-sowing","category-mana"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4518","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/108"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4518"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4518\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20699,"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4518\/revisions\/20699"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4518"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4518"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4518"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=4518"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}