{"id":8795,"date":"2018-10-29T04:13:19","date_gmt":"2018-10-29T09:13:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vnsalvation.org\/?p=8795"},"modified":"2019-12-06T02:21:05","modified_gmt":"2019-12-06T02:21:05","slug":"chap-nhan-noi-dau-nhu-la-dieu-binh-thuong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hahosa.com\/vnsalvation\/chap-nhan-noi-dau-nhu-la-dieu-binh-thuong\/","title":{"rendered":"Ch\u1ea5p Nh\u1eadn N\u1ed7i \u0110au Nh\u01b0 L\u00e0 \u0110i\u1ec1u B\u00ecnh Th\u01b0\u1eddng"},"content":{"rendered":"
Ch\u1ea5p Nh\u1eadn N\u1ed7i \u0110au Nh\u01b0 L\u00e0 \u0110i\u1ec1u B\u00ecnh Th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/span><\/div>\n

Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra kh\u1ecfi n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00f3.<\/span>
\n Bruce n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u1ea7y ra kh\u1ecfi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y? Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u00e0 h\u00f2 h\u1eb9n nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 n\u0103m, hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. T\u00f4i v\u1eeba b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0103n v\u00e0 n\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng b\u1ecf t\u00f4i. S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u1ea7y x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean c\u00f4 \u1ea5y\u201d.<\/span>
\n T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u th\u00f4i, m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u00e0 y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, s\u1ee9c thu h\u00fat v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i ra kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, ngay t\u1ee9c th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u1ea5y li\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 y\u00eau nhau th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n qua \u0111\u1eddi hay b\u1ecf b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn n\u1ea7y c\u00f2n kinh kh\u1ee7ng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n g\u1ea7n 30 n\u0103m. Ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i c\u00f4. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n x\u1ea3y ra, c\u00f4 ta lu\u00f4n tha th\u1ee9 cho anh \u1ea5y. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i chia tay, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng n\u1ed7i n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 anh \u1ea5y. Khi anh ta r\u1eddi b\u1ecf c\u00f4, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua n\u1ed7i \u0111au kinh kh\u1ee7ng. Thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3, c\u00f4 ta \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 c\u00f4 ta n\u00ean hay kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho ph\u00e9p anh \u1ea5y tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 tr\u1eeb phi anh ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1ed1ng trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ea1i d\u1ed9t khi ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi ch\u00fang ta tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i \u0111au. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111au r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 sau \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fd do g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau, th\u00ec n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u1eadt. B\u1ea1n \u0111i ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1edb nhung qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. S\u00e1ng th\u1ee9c d\u1eady, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n nh\u1edb h\u1ecd kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp. Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Th\u1eddi gian tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 v\u1ecb. Nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n to l\u1edbn trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u1ea5y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00fac \u1ea5y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i v\u1ec1 sau n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc sau:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/span>
\n N\u1ed7i \u0111au b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u00fac b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 t\u1ea3i, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00edch m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 (r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea7y). B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kinh nghi\u1ec7m tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng r\u00fat lui v\u00ec n\u1ed7i \u0111au khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ly d\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau qua \u0111\u1eddi, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng tr\u1ea3i qua c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 v\u00e0 su\u1ed1t n\u0103m c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y v\u1eabn y nguy\u00ean. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i qua m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nh\u1edd ngu\u1ed3n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n hay m\u1ee5c s\u01b0.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 hai, h\u00e3y nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i.<\/span>
\n N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 sau khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u ch\u1eefa m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec, cho d\u00f9 l\u00fd do n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t, th\u00ec h\u00e3y quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3, gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00f3 v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i nghe m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb sau khi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng 14 n\u0103m. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao c\u00f4 ly d\u1ecb?\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u1ea5y tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cV\u00ec ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh t\u00f4i\u201d. \u201cNh\u01b0ng v\u00ec sao m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn nay c\u00f4 m\u1edbi ly d\u1ecb, v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh c\u00f4 su\u1ed1t 14 n\u0103m qua kia m\u00e0?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cV\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0y t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra vi\u1ec7c anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e1nh t\u00f4i v\u1eady l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u1ea3nh t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n n\u00f3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng c\u1ea3nh gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n ly d\u1ecb, v\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch n\u1ea7y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng sau khi nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0: N\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u1ed7i \u0111au. H\u00e3y tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, h\u00e3y nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng mu\u1ed1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i \u0111au b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 ba, ch\u1ecdn ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn<\/span>
\n Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta tin h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u xa \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t, ni\u1ec1m tin \u1ea5y s\u1ebd ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 sa v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb b\u1ebf t\u1eafc v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta tin s\u1ed1ng. Kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta tin c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t tin nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. B\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n v\u1edbi h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd g\u1ecdi \u201cs\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i h\u00f2a trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed\u201d. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1eef s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ch\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u1ecdn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta tin l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta tin l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. C\u0103n b\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta tin l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta x\u1ea5u, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta tin l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, cung c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta tin r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n tin.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn tin r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb qu\u00e8 qu\u1eb7t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta tin l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng n\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. N\u00f3 \u1edf trong t\u1ea7m tay ch\u00fang ta. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 t\u01b0, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ecf, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t b\u1ecf<\/span>
\n \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u2013 cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt hay t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u1eebng c\u00f3 \u1ea3o v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a Ruth, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u, c\u00f4 n\u1ea7y v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u0169 d\u00f9 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eddi c\u00f4 3 n\u0103m r\u1ed3i. Thay v\u00ec c\u00f4 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u00f3, th\u00ec c\u00f4 ta v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n trong khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 kh\u00f3a ch\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n trong n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 nan \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 n\u0103m, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u1ed7i \u0111au<\/span>
\n Mu\u1ed1n n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u1ed7i \u0111au, \u0111\u1eebng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i n\u00f3, r\u00fat lui hay tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i qua n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00f2ng quanh, v\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 r\u00fat lui, h\u1ecd hy v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au s\u1ebd h\u1ebft, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i ra n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi k\u00fd \u1ee9c m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 nan \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n sau \u0111\u00f3, hay khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, ma t\u00fay, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, b\u00e0i b\u1ea1c, d\u00f9ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o xoa d\u1ecbu n\u1ed7i \u0111au. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch n\u1ea7y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1m v\u01a1i \u0111i r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i \u0111au nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3<\/span>
\n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee9u nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai tr\u1eadt trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i th\u00f3i quen u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u. V\u00ec sao h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00f3 trong khi h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u g\u00e2y ra bi\u1ebft bao nan \u0111\u1ec1 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9? Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau n\u1eb1m \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ki\u00eang tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua s\u1ef1 \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd b\u1ecb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ki\u00eang tr\u00e1nh hay t\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u1ed7i \u0111au bu\u1ed3n m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ec3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thanh Khi\u1ebft d\u1ecbch<\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u00edch d\u1ecbch t\u1eeb quy\u1ec3n L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ecbt l\u00e0nh v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng (How to mend a broken heart) c\u1ee7a Dick Innes.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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